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Meeting my Mr. Right

Before i meet my Boyfriend in person "since we were in virtual dating" i told him that his coming in the Philippines doesn't mean he will be bound to marry me. I want him to be sure about his feelings towards me as well as mine towards him, because its hard to determine online if the person is telling the truth or not, hard to tell if the person is showing its real personality and characteristic & how the way we handle things together like pressure, anger, etc.. its really different when you actually meet and being with each other for real, so the meeting is all about getting to know each other more, confirming feelings for each other, having fun, enjoy, relax, VACATION... no pressure at all so its a no proposal policy until he get back to the US and take time to think if we really enjoy each others company, if we really love each other, if we really want and need each other.... it is the fairest way i know for the both of us since i don't want to feel obligated too, i was afraid... What if i don't like him when i see him in person... What if i can't feel the magic of love when i meet him and same way  when he meet me... What if we will find out that we don't have a chemistry.... And so, he admit that he think about those things too, so we agreed for the NO proposal policy during this vacation so to give time for each other to think and have the freedom to decide after meeting its not bad to be cautious anyway:) i know finding the right one is not that easy, specially when the wrong person seems like the right one. 

So, as he arrived in Cebu and i meet him at the airport and as i see him approaching to the exit gate i can already feel my heart beat faster then i waved at him and smile and say hi welcome ! he smile back at me and hugged me tight at that time i was thinking this is it i can feel it (lol) and as the days go by the feeling is mutual, we are so comfortable with each other, we are having fun, we had some problems with the finances because his card screwed up but we both deal with it calmly and all the things we have been doing is getting fun more and more everyday like there were time we riding on a jeepney (multicab) it was so tight that he couldn't move because he was afraid he might hurt or touch or make other people uncomfortable, and the pedal cab riding from the beach (which he didn't ride with it again because he feel so sorry for the driver, he think he is so heavy) that all things happen and turned out fun well, those are just two of the many experiences we had that he really can't forget and he enjoyed the most.



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